Turning tragedy into triumph.
A journey toward living your best life.
Fourth of July. The Kings River. A dive he had made a hundred times.
Shallow water.
He did not surface the same man.
I have been blessed with extreme hardships that might have sucked while happening, yet the journey built optimism, fueled strength, and allowed me to overcome with grace and gratitude.
A dive into shallow water at the Kings River. A C5 spinal cord injury, total paralysis. He drowned at the scene and a fireman brought him back. He died on the table more than once, and spent three months in the hospital speaking in blinks. One for yes. Two for no.
From a C5 spinal cord injury and total paralysis to walking two unassisted 5Ks. A finger twitch at three months. Out of the chair at six years. The proof that recovery and reinvention are real.
"When they said I would never move again, they underestimated the power of my mind."
"Daddy, everything will be alright."
Nicole Vietor, at his bedside
"It was at that moment I knew I'd walk. The hardest thing was not being able to tell you it really would be all right."
This site is being created to share his unique life story and pay both his lessons and blessings forward. He is living his "Die on Empty" philosophy while continuing to pursue so many risks and dreams. He is not using this platform to chase money or notoriety, but instead to give back through philanthropic efforts.
Hopefully his amazing journey, the risks he is and has taken, the dreams he has accomplished or is chasing, and the commitment and discipline he lives with will inspire and motivate others to seek positive change, heal, learn and grow towards living their best life. He is driven to help others implement their version of living life in the present, fearlessly going after what they truly want with passion and purpose, so they die exhausted and without regret.
“Hard things happen for me, not to me.”
"Developing this is about the process and not perfection. 1% better every day."
"I do not accept aging, disability or death on anyone else's terms but my own."
"I am relentless in my pursuit of physical health but not at the expense of my mental, emotional or spiritual health."
Pilates or weights, 6 to 7 days a week
Afternoon pool work, cold plunge
Red light and infrared sauna, 5 to 6 days
No drugs, alcohol, sugar, processed food, seed oils
"I love to do hard things easily. I GET TO, but never HAVE TO."
"Courage doesn't mean you're not afraid. Courage means you are scared to death and do it anyway. I believe grit can be developed and is a process of challenging yourself relentlessly."
Pain is temporary, quitting lasts forever
F E A R: Face Everything And Rise
"My injury and disability are my superpower."
"I have found power in my ability to connect, learn, heal and grow through sharing all my flaws, dysfunction, fears and imperfections with open heart and authentic vulnerability. When I am authentic and vulnerable, others open up in the safety that doing so provides."
Be a good man, not a nice guy
Be the tugboat that pulls, not the lighthouse that watches
"When you can't see God's hand, trust His heart."
"I recently accepted Jesus as my Lord and Savior but have zero desire to push my beliefs on others or pass judgement on those with differing views. I hope to share my faith by example of good living through my actions and behaviors."
Let go and let God
Shared by example, never preached
"My life has taught me the value of taking risks and I am hardwired to do so, I thrive in organized chaos and love pushing my boundaries and challenge what is possible."
"Breaking my neck and overcoming insurmountable odds in every aspect of life truly built me. Hopefully sharing all my wins, losses, achievements and failures inspires others to take calculated risks and chase their ridiculous dreams."
An MBA from USC Marshall, finished while quadriplegic, in a wheelchair, at night, as a working single father. Summa cum laude.
Started, grew and sold multiple businesses. Realty. A coding shop. Brokerage. Warehouse. Trucking. Commercial property, acquired 2018.
An 11,000 square foot modern wellness retreat in Scottsdale, designed and built as his own general contractor, while living out of his truck and an RV. This page becomes a living feed as the build rises.
Relaunching Inspiring Flight. Founding and self-funding Restore to Rise, so the lessons and blessings get paid forward.
The manuscript, in progress. The whole story, told the way only he can tell it.
A Wyoming ranch under contract. The next unrealistic dream, and the bridge to everything that follows.
"Risk is always better than regret."
"My ultimate dream is to live a simple life, in love and extremely connected to the ones I cherish, in an environment that lifts my spirit and feeds my soul."
"My next dream is to buy and build out a large ranch with facilities for wellness, skill development and training, education and worship in Wyoming. I am currently putting a ranch under contract and will be sharing the pursuit of that dream soon too."
"Money is only a tool and provides freedom and the opportunity to chase dreams."
From total paralysis to love and happiness, one step at a time.
"I'd still choose the broken neck every time."
From the manuscript
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Swim With Mike was tremendous for me.
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Recovering from total paralysis, C5 quad, to Die on Empty. Not broke, exhausted from living. Mastering minds, restoring body, healing hearts, nurturing souls.
"Leave nothing in the tank."
Tank: empty. Life: full.
